Troubled : Where to stay after marriage? Sound familiar right...

Today, there is a discussion going on about where to stay after marriage.

Being married, in everyone opinion is to start our family. Wife prepared to detach themselves from their family and start a new beginning with their husband. But man thinks otherwise. They feel that they cannot just leave their mother alone after all .

Wife will told their husband the reason of wanting to move out for various reasons:
1) Privacy
2) Avoid Conflicts : They do not want their husband to be caught in between.
3) Sleep late: Woman can't afford to do that if they stayed with in laws.
4) Wear whatever they want especially PJs
5) Their living style and in laws are very different.
6) Doing housework : In laws will told their husband that they have to clean their own room, wash my their clothes and iron their won clothes after being married. Woman would rather move out and do all these for themselves and their husband. Besides, every woman will do all housework themselves after marriage life is a very big sacrifice which they are willing to undertake. This is done out of love.

I cited one example. A guy told the gal that since he is the only son, it is his responsibility to take care of his mother.What about the gal? The gal's parents have 1 daughter & 1 son, but the only son does not even bother what is happening is their family and dun even contribute any cents to the family. Does this mean that one of the son in law actually have to "marry into" her family? The guy reasoning weak and this is really bothering their relationship.

Is she not being fair? It doesnt mean to her that once they move out, they will not care about our parents anymore.It only means that they are taking a new responsibility.

Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you gonna get.

Do remember that not all relationships are sweet as honey, some are torny like durians. You never really know, they can be nice at first then you find out that they are real B#$%#