Sunday, September 2, 2007

Marry for wrong reasons & Divorce for 2nd Chance???

A lot of people marry for the wrong reasons while others after marriage found that they have married the wrong person. Actually this is nothing new for people of our generation or rather people only show what their true colours after the marriage. Before, one could be good and pleasing but after marriage bad, nasty and childish ...

Had a lot of agreements with the article that had been written on Sunday's Lifestyle " Cupid strikes -again". Many might take marriage as holy and sacred and divorce is a nasty word to be thought and spoken of. Divorcees are frowned upon by the older generation but to the younger generation it has become another chance to really meet their destinated ones ...

There are many reasons that lead to the end of marriages. Some married too young, some for the sake of the flat, some for their unborn child, some for the sake of settling down and etc... All these people never thought of long term committments but rather bank on how to solve the short term ones. When the time comes to show that they are not suitable for each other after much counselling and mending, divorce becomes the only way out.

I believed in the second spring as mentioned in the papers. Being a divorcee doesn't mean that one is a failure but only that one isn't compatiable with his/her partner. It is worthless to drag on a relationship that has ceased,one must as well let go swiftly so that the other party could also find their happiness.

It's good to see that the society that we are living in is finally opening up and accepting different concepts. Things might be tough and difficult at first but determination and will-power, true love conquers all !!!

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