Shallow, The Name Is Man

I do wonder sometimes, what men are looking for in a woman?
Quite often, I am asked what I am looking for in a man, so how about me turning the table around and ask you guys instead?

From these 5Bs, namely: Beauty, Body, Boobs, Butts, Brain, which will you be most interested in? Oh, most of my guy friends give me the crap that personality is most important.. However I know this might not be the true answer, men are indeed shallow when it comes to women. Of course, not all of them.

Who doesn't like a pretty face? I will also take a second look if I walk past a 'handsome' man. Beauty is quite subjective. What you think is beautiful may look like 'ship wreckage' to another! Truthfully, I think first impression counts. At least if I like how you look, I won't find you annoying to begin with!

Few months back, I was at a pub with my sis and her friends. When she went to the ladies, a guy came over with his friend and started chatting me up.

He asked me:

HIM: "What is a pretty girl like you doing here alone?"
ME: "I am with a friend and she just happened to visit the ladies"
HIM:"Are you a local?"

ME:"No, not exactly" (Well, well, I decide to play along a little . . .)
HIM:"Where are you from?"
ME:"Taiwan" I answered..
HIM:"No wonder. You have nice features and your eyes are big. Most Taiwanese girls are very beautiful. So what are you doing here, on holiday or you're staying here?"

ME:"Holiday with my family"
HIM:"Errrr… as in husband or?"
ME:"Yes, with my husband"

HIM:"Oh..your husband is one lucky guy but where is he"
ME:"He's with friends - boys nite out"
HIM:"Oh, you are not afraid he is out with girls"
ME:"Sometimes it's best not to know too much. Ignorance is bliss"

HIM:"You are so pretty. If you are not married, I would love to date you. Actually, I don't mind you having a husband"
ME:"But I MIND!" (Another jerks!)

With that, he quickly excused himself . . . You can see, that guy could well be married too!

Is it really that fun in meaningless and frivolous affairs? Maybe so.

Forbidden fruit is poisonous, deadly but yet has this natural appeal that most men desire to have just a little bite. Lust. One of the seven sins.

Apple tastes sweeter when it's stolen, is it?

I Love You or You Love Me

Can love ever be that simple?

I remember when i was young, i often dream of falling passionately in love with an imaginary man who will ride a white horse wearing that shining armour. Hmm...Ok, forget about the horse and the armour, maybe a sporty motorbike and a simple plain white shirt will do. As long as he loves me to heaven, i will marry him for sure..........

Then as i grow older, i realised, it's not enough just to have some guy who loves you dearly. It's not enough even if he's willing to fly you to the moon or get you that huge red rock from Mars or get the biggest diamond in the world. Not when you don't even love him that little bit.

I began to also understand that having a relationship with some man who doesn't give two hoots about you won't work either. Especially when you happened to love that man madly to the sky, ever ready to start the bungee jumping trend down from New Asia Bar if he ever casually asked you to.(Just an example!)

So, tell me, which is better:

"To marry someone you love to death or to spend the rest of your life with someone you don’t love but who loves you very much?"

For me, i want to marry someone whom i love and one who loves me back. Because only then can i be truly happy.

Tell me, am i too idealistic?

Lappy Down AGAIN!!!

Sorry everyone! My lappy is down again last week... But it is working well and in top good condition after some help from few person esp HIM.... He is really sweet and a darling to me...Spend the whole day download all the software i need and finding ways to improve it and make it as if it is brand new for me... Even went down to SIM LIN during his busy working schedule to upgrade my RAM(Hopefully din loss any deal) and sent it back to my office door step to me... Save all the hassle and frustration dealing with this stupid lappy for me... FYI...Im an IT nerd:( ...............

Gathering for CNY Dinner

Met with some great friends to gossip share concern we have about others and over yu sheng and a wonderfully insanely filling zi char dinner.After which we adjourn to 2-mth old Firestation at Bukit Timah, an old fire station turned Art/Media mini-hub with 2 chill out joints.

Yes, like Dempsey. And it is call Jaywalk! The atmosphere is average and so-so, is all my great friends make the difference of this gathering..... Cheers:)

Oh oh oh… And they have Hoegaarden and Stella on the tap! Thank MazdaGal!

Happy lunar new year AGAIN!!!