My Macau Trip in Nov-Dec 2007

Oh gosh! When I looked back and it seems like I haven't updated my blog for a long time ..Oops!! Work is taking up a wee-bit of time... Sorry abt that :(

Here are some updates of my Macau trip in Nov-Dec 2007. The hotel is superb! I enjoyed my stay there. Hereby, I should share some pics of The Venetian Macao.

My Taiwan Trip in Sept 2007

After working hard for 2 years in my studies, it is time to reward myself with a short trip. I believed that there is "NO PAIN, NO GAIN"...
Is a wonderful trip for me even though i fall sick after that.

Dinner at Toast Box

Sick After Taiwan Trip

Sorry my frenz.... I just came back from my Taiwan trip but unfortunately i fall sick... Down with fever, flu and sore throat.. Maybe because im lack of sleep and keep feeding myself with all the Taiwan goodies... Well, i really enjoyed this trip esp when two best buddy share the same hobbies like shopping and enjoying good foods in Taiwan... Gals talk at late night regardless what topics .... A fruitfully trip with my buddy.... I deserved it after been tied up for 2 years of "tough" studies pursue my BBA...Will upload Taiwan trip pics soon... Stay tune...

Monday Blues..

I hate Monday esp today... Everything seems not right to me.... Im having a sharp pain when im doing some workout... Bear with it as i still have emails to clear.... Cant imagine everything went wrong today... Example: Received an email which address you "Mdm" and telling you that your check up for menopause(I'm still quite young), forget to zip my pant after shower, forget to take keys, lost my Ezlink Card at Yio Chu Kang and worst still, nearly get into quarrel with CatBeeMan, damn irriated by endless "emphasis" of what is nice here and there... Cant i have what i want after a nasty day today!!! Is just a small request only.... When i reached home, Q & A session started, whenever parents quarrel, they want their child to side them.... They will ask you "Who is right & Who is wrong?".... Just simply feel like telling them "I'm wrong, are you all happy with the answer?" I walked into my own bedroom after hearing this kind of sickening stuffs ....Feel like hiding in the room and cry.... What a bad Monday!!!

Money is an issue in a relationship? Why are we quarrel about the importance of money?

Money is the top things most people (married or in a long-term, live-in relationship) fight about. And, the reason people fight about both of those is because the two people each have a different expectation and valuation of the thing

When the fight is about money, typically one side likes to save more and places a higher value on money, and the savings provides a sense of security. To the other person, they value savings less, and see no problem with spending money, even if they don't have it. The two have different views and valuations of money.

Understanding why you both view money differently is the root to getting past this as a big issue. Sure, you will still disagree, but you will know why and how best to move past it into an agreeable compromise.

Most people don't want to admit it and that is why they quarrel. The best way to solve it, is to admit that money is an issue in your relationship.

Because money makes the world go round... It's probably the biggest reason for divorce.

Should a guy buy anniversary present for their gf??

Hmm.... Both parties should remember their anniversary, birthdays, dating date, etc. It not a must to buy present but can give each other a surprise, cook a romantic dinner, go for holiday trip and many others. As long as they spend times with each other everyday is their anniversary day. It not only the guys job to do that but girls like surprises and romantic stuffs.
Ya it takes 2 hands to clap. But if you buy her something during anniversary... she will be very happy:)

So try to get a gift for her/him on special occasion that will be more meaningful doesn't it?
If doing so u can make ur loved ones happy... why not........

Actually that depend.Most of the guy will alway think that spending money buying present for their gf during anniversary is a waste of money. Whereas for gal is an different meaning to them when their bf bought an present for them. It mean to them that their bf is serious about this relationship, love them very much.

Basically throughout the courtship, both parties should buy present for each other occasionally. Maybe you find that it is an waste of money but when the other party receive your present, you can see that they are very happy, you will also feel the joy in it.And most importance things are to show care, concern and be more understanding to the other party. So that an relationship will last longer. :)

Secret code in relationship

Does your hubby or boy friend give a morning good bye kiss to you, while he going out work? While time to sleep does your hubby or boyfriend give you a good nite kiss?

Kisses are a kind of affection and it's an endearment which every gals love. Some of the guys will give their gals a tight squeeze on their hands to let them feel so reassured and loved. Every relationship has their own secret code

Below is an articles in the magazine that i want to share with my friends.

Three kisses a day make you happy. Whether you kiss your partner on remembering a sweet moment, or some cute action it is a good excuse to come close to each other. So never stop kissing.

Give your lover a morning kiss and take a goodnight kiss in return. However you do it make it sure to kiss each other to keep your love intact.

Kiss each other for healthy reasons. Kisses not only improve your love relationship but also keep you healthy. Experts say that kissing is a great cardiovascular activity and a process to lower high blood pressure, it also lowers cholesterol level. (No one will died of heart attack already...hmmm) You better kiss each other for a romance as well as a health.(Wow! That means i can prolong my life)

They also say that since kisses puts to work over 30 muscles of your face your skin becomes smoother. So, all you women who want their skin smooth and glowing make sure to kiss your partners and give them a chance to kiss you.(Then no need to use SK II already... hahaha)

A romantic kiss fulfills the day of the partners giving them complete assurance of love for each other. (Assurance is better than insurance)If you love your partners then kiss each other. Find moments to steal a kiss from your partner. Your partner will love you even more. Kiss each other to enhance your love life.

Every woman and man get motivated and empowered with the power of love, and kiss is one way to express your love. So always make sure to kiss your partner to feel motivated and loved and let your love life never fade. (That's true)

Display your love with a kiss. Remember what has been said earlier, “If you love somebody show it”. Your love is doubled. Your partner too will react to the love expressed by you.

A kiss shows romance and intimacy, love and care, it all depends to whom you kiss and how you kiss. Kisses represent you feelings for the other person. A kiss is innocent, sweet, caring or hot. It all depends on your feelings and relationship.

You kiss a person when you are attracted towards him or her. Your feelings are very well understood when you kiss your lover or anybody else such as your friend, children or parents. You can never forget the first kiss of your lover; it still can fill you up with deep emotions. Such is the power of a kiss.

Troubled : Where to stay after marriage? Sound familiar right...

Today, there is a discussion going on about where to stay after marriage.

Being married, in everyone opinion is to start our family. Wife prepared to detach themselves from their family and start a new beginning with their husband. But man thinks otherwise. They feel that they cannot just leave their mother alone after all .

Wife will told their husband the reason of wanting to move out for various reasons:
1) Privacy
2) Avoid Conflicts : They do not want their husband to be caught in between.
3) Sleep late: Woman can't afford to do that if they stayed with in laws.
4) Wear whatever they want especially PJs
5) Their living style and in laws are very different.
6) Doing housework : In laws will told their husband that they have to clean their own room, wash my their clothes and iron their won clothes after being married. Woman would rather move out and do all these for themselves and their husband. Besides, every woman will do all housework themselves after marriage life is a very big sacrifice which they are willing to undertake. This is done out of love.

I cited one example. A guy told the gal that since he is the only son, it is his responsibility to take care of his mother.What about the gal? The gal's parents have 1 daughter & 1 son, but the only son does not even bother what is happening is their family and dun even contribute any cents to the family. Does this mean that one of the son in law actually have to "marry into" her family? The guy reasoning weak and this is really bothering their relationship.

Is she not being fair? It doesnt mean to her that once they move out, they will not care about our parents anymore.It only means that they are taking a new responsibility.

Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you gonna get.

Do remember that not all relationships are sweet as honey, some are torny like durians. You never really know, they can be nice at first then you find out that they are real B#$%#

What a busy & enjoyable day!!!

Afternoon

I went for eye treatment, facial massage and anti-ageing therapy(is to prevent, not because im old). It's was so relaxing and i nearly fall asleep. The service is good even though it was crowded with people. Most impt, they are very professional and polite. A thumb up for them! They won my heart to sign a XXX package with them. What a good deal for me :)

Night

I went to Pasir Gudang for dinner. Malaysia road really suck, with all the uneven surface, hump and a lot of potholes, nearly vomit out all the good foods that i had for dinner. We ordered a lot nice foods such as steam sea brass, cereal prawns(my fav), sotong, kang kong, fried rice and chilly crabs(die die must order)... Yummy yummy... Gain 500 calories aft this meal.... Most impt, is only 200 plus ringgit for 7 persons. My bur say "cheap until lao sai"... hahaha...

We went to Carrefour to do some marketing. We grab some good deal stuff like Yakult only 3.89 ringgit for 5 bottles, Nestle Yogurt drink for 3.99 ringgit and car fresher for 12.99 ringgit... Save up a lot. Thumb up again!!!

Our next destination is car wash.... No joke to wash bur's car esp the white wheels, need a lot of hard work to get rid of the stubborn stain on the white wheels. There are 3 persons washing bur's car at one time.... I saw a funny scene when Tino trying to drive upslope for car washing, he could not reach the top and i saw the wheels was strugging hard to get up there. Remind me of a rat strugging the way up the slope.. hahaha..... His car's colour is the same as the rat skin... OMG....

Wow, it's pretty late after that.. We head straight back to Singapore after that.... Not much jams... Phew...Everyone & everything safe..

It's a busy & enjoyable day...

Sick sick sick

Im sick for two days... Just like a walking zombie at home... Felt so restless, lying on the bed looking at the walls....A lot of images flashed over my mind... Thinking abt my past.... Sick gal like me always wants a lot of attention and a lot of craving for cakes and cookies during this period... Everyone will find reasons like "for your own good", please control your diet at this moment... I hate to be sick... But what i can do? Sometimes you really hoping your loved ones will do something special for you...

The Happiness Test

Try this......http://www.shoppinglifestyle.com/quiz/happiness/

My Results:40.7% / Dissatisfied (OMG)

Your score shows that you are generally dissatisfied with your life. Perhaps there are some aspects of your life that aren't going your way, or maybe it's that one key area (or two) that is facing a crisis such as a divorce or unemployment. But whatever the case, take heart in the knowledge that life is a bumpy ride, and most of the time things will eventually improve.However, if feelings of dissatisfaction with your life persist and you find yourself underperforming and distracted by your unhappiness, then some changes might be in order. For example, try to have a more positive outlook on life or talk to a counsellor or friend.If you have an overly-competitive tendency, it's also important to refrain from pushing yourself too hard. Try to spend more time with your loved ones. And remember to set realistic goals for yourself because satisfaction will only come when the things you want are actually achievable.

Marry for wrong reasons & Divorce for 2nd Chance???

A lot of people marry for the wrong reasons while others after marriage found that they have married the wrong person. Actually this is nothing new for people of our generation or rather people only show what their true colours after the marriage. Before, one could be good and pleasing but after marriage bad, nasty and childish ...

Had a lot of agreements with the article that had been written on Sunday's Lifestyle " Cupid strikes -again". Many might take marriage as holy and sacred and divorce is a nasty word to be thought and spoken of. Divorcees are frowned upon by the older generation but to the younger generation it has become another chance to really meet their destinated ones ...

There are many reasons that lead to the end of marriages. Some married too young, some for the sake of the flat, some for their unborn child, some for the sake of settling down and etc... All these people never thought of long term committments but rather bank on how to solve the short term ones. When the time comes to show that they are not suitable for each other after much counselling and mending, divorce becomes the only way out.

I believed in the second spring as mentioned in the papers. Being a divorcee doesn't mean that one is a failure but only that one isn't compatiable with his/her partner. It is worthless to drag on a relationship that has ceased,one must as well let go swiftly so that the other party could also find their happiness.

It's good to see that the society that we are living in is finally opening up and accepting different concepts. Things might be tough and difficult at first but determination and will-power, true love conquers all !!!

Easy & Difficult

Easy is to get a place in someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking.
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others.
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult is to give it real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so as not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others.
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive.
Difficult is to give

Easy is to read this.
Difficult is to follow it

Easy is to keep a friendship with words.
Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

Relationships that Work

What works in a relationship can vary greatly from one couple to the next. After all, each individual has unique needs so there couldn't possibly be one secret formula for creating a perfect relationship for everyone. You can decide whether the ideal relationship in your head is the one you want to keep for all time, or whether you'd like to bend it a bit to match more of what has been shown to work for others. Granted, what works for others might not work for you, so in the end, you may to need to simply listen to your gut and follow your heart.

Ways to make your relationship more successful:

-Make sure you want to be in a relationship and that the person you are with is right for you.
-Give your partner the benefit of the doubt and assume that they are trying their best to make you happy and are acting with your best interests in mind.
-Be a little flexible in terms of how much closeness and togetherness you need.
-Learn how to communicate in ways that will promote your relationship and build closeness and understanding between you. For example, show respect, not criticism.
-Learn how to love yourself and how to be in touch with your own emotions, don't deny or suppress what you may be feeling or thinking.
-Find ways to keep the passion in your relationship alive.
-Learn to tolerate adversity and stress.
-Experience life together as an adventure.

How to de-stress yourself?

Here are some techniques:

Progressive Relaxation


Deep Breathing

By concentrating on our breathing, deep breathing allows the rest of our body to relax itself. Deep breathing is a great way to relax the body and get everything into synchrony.
Relaxation breathing is an important part of yoga and martial arts for this reason.

Lie on your back.
Slowly relax your body.
Begin to inhale slowly through your nose if possible.
Fill the lower part of your chest first, then the middle and top part of your chest and lungs.
Be sure to do this slowly, over 8–10 seconds.
Hold your breath for a second or two.
Then quietly and easily relax and let the air out.
Wait a few seconds and repeat this cycle.
If you find yourself getting dizzy, then you are overdoing it. Slow down.
You can also imagine yourself in a peaceful situation such as on a warm, gentle ocean.
Imagine that you rise on the gentle swells of the water as you inhale and sink down into the waves as you exhale. You can continue this breathing technique for as long as you like until you fall asleep.


Quiet Ears Lie on your back with your eyes closed.
Place your hands behind your head.
Make sure they are relaxed.
Place your thumbs in your ears so that you close the ear canal.
You will hear a high-pitched rushing sound. This is normal.
Listen to this sound for 10–15 minutes. Then put your arms at your sides, actively relax them and go to sleep.

Life is not easy....

Life is not easy....

Dear Friends out there, how are you recently? Hope u guys/gals been doing fine. Well, it is quite some time since i have contacted all my friends..all i can say here is life is not as easy as it seems. We have to work, work and work for living. Other than work, we have been burden by lots of things like love problems, family problems, colleagues problems, traffic problems, financial problems...lots more..so how can we have a balance of all those problems?

New Blog!!!

New Blog!!!

To all my dearest friends...welcome to my new blog..i am creating this blog to keep my long lost frens and new frens update about my current happenings and news..so keep an eye on my future features blog ya!
Love always!