Migraine Headache-It's kiiling me

I'm having terrible headache on both Fri and Sat...I hate it as migraine is much more than a bad headache and throbbing headache usually felt on one side of my head. The pain may also shift from side to side.This time round accompanied by severe vomiting, and extreme sensitivity to smell, light and sound. It's really spolit my moods. I believe my migrance is trigger by stress as im having a hard week at work and bright lights/sun glare. Some of my friends who knows me well understand why i always mention "见光着死" in 2 diff terms 。 光 can damage my face so i will try to avoid it and 光 can trigger my migraine too. Secondhand smoke may provoke my migraines further headache pain. This is one of the worst relapse i ever had... It had been 4 years back since the last relapse. It's killing me:(



Nothing else matters, every other concern in the world takes a back seat to getting rid of the pain. I have to turn out the lights, pull shades and close the curtains. Then lay down comfortably on the bed with two pillows by my side. Simply relaxing in a dark, quiet room is often enough to quickly alleviate my migraine headaches. YES! I need total darkness.. Stay away for those smells and noise that irritates me further...... FINALLY, fall asleep till the next morning........... This is a way for me to relieve from migraine headache pain.



Large chicken breast or fillet white fish or lean red meat are recommended for people who suffer from migraine headaches. So the next Sat morning, he brought me fish porridge and deliver it to my door step in the shortest time he could. Heartfelt and sincere, thanks for everything you have ever done.



I feel much better after two days resting at home... Phew! It's finally over.........

What makes a BEST partner

A colleague sent me this, which I thought was quite meaningful and I cant help but ponder how many of this does my partner qualify.

1.Someone who knows what you need before you say it.
2.Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry.
3.Someone who truly listens when you have something to say.
4.Someone that’s there for you during the good and bad times.
5.Someone who is caring.
6.Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.
7.Someone who is honest.
8.Someone you can trust them as a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are.
9.Someone who is open and responsive.
10.Someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.
11.Someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.
12.Someone who understands listening is the key, but using what is heard is even more important.
13.Someone who’s there for you no matter what.
14.Someone who is trustful. Someone who is a friend.
15.Someone who gives a shoulder to cry on.
16.Someone with a great sense of humor.
17.Someone who has things in common with you.
18.Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.
19.Someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who they really are.
20.Someone who always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are.
21.Someone that can get a point across without yelling.
22.Someone that remembers all the cute stupid stuff you love.
23.Someone that has a personality with qualities you don’t have yourself, but admire greatly in them.
24.Someone who realizes you’re two separate people, and appreciate the differences.
25.Someone who can sense a mood problem, and not take it personally.
26.Someone who understands the difference between PMS, and a real problem.
27.Someone who can make you happy when you’re sad.
28.Someone who tells you the truth even if you don’t want to hear it.
29.Someone who will not hurt you intentionally.
30.Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherish you no matter what.
31.Someone that you can laugh with.
32.Someone who you can feel comfortable with and that you don’t care what kind of weird stuff they see you do because you know they will still love you no matter what.
33.Someone who will love you in spite of your little idiosyncrasies.
34.Someone that would do anything to show you how much they care.
35.Someone who is a great pal, a great kisser, and a great lover!
36.Someone who allows you to be yourself around them.
37.Someone who will respect you. Someone who cherishes your hopes and is kind to your dreams.
38.Someone who knows you’re not perfect, but treats you as though you are.
39.Someone who listens with their heart and is your source of inspiration.
40.Someone who loves you with all their heart and soul.

I believed the guy I chose should meet most of the quality that makes him my best partner:p

Enjoying serenity of home

The long weekend was a welcoming change from the stressful time I had at work. I had looked forward to this long weekend as a time for me to rest, relax and rejuvenate but sadly I could do it as well as I would have loved to.

There arent many weekends that I spend on my own at home. Most weekends mum is at home with me or I will be out for shopping or gathering.

For some reason, I am enjoying the serenity of home today. Maybe because is raining day and I am too lazy to go out. Managed to catch some beauty sleep too.




Now I am chilling out at home thinking what to do the rest of today.

Give Up Your Seat for the needy!

How do you know who to give your seat to on the MRT ?

The loose guideline is what’s printed on signs: “Please offer this seat to someone who needs it more than you do.”

We know that “someone who needs it more than you do” typically refers to the elderly, the pregnant and the handicapped.

But why are people giving up their seat to me??? I'm not even pregnant!!! I know there is no fixed rule and we’re supposed to make intuitive judgement calls case by case.

I encountered this case mutiple times. I have been mistaken a couple of times for being pregnant on the MRT : Someone had offered his seat to ME! I glared at him and said, “I’m not pregnant!”. I'm just happens to have a very large belly. Yes, I feel offended. You caused so much embarrassment for ME when you offer your seat to ME, wrong person! So sickening!

Please STOP eyeing@@ at my large belly!!!

爱就一个字 By 張信哲

It's a really beautiful song when i listen this again from FM933... Wow! This is an old song in my xxx days..

爱就一个字。
美好的回忆只有一次。
眼泪却可以一直流下去。



拨开天空的乌云
像蓝丝绒一样美丽
我为你翻山越岭
却无心看风景
我想你身不由己
每个念头有新的梦境
但愿你没忘记
我永远保护你
不管风雨的打击全心全意
两个人相互辉映
光芒胜过夜晚繁星
我为你翻山越岭却无心看风景
我想你鼓足勇气凭
爱的地图散播讯息
但愿你没忘记
我永远保护你
从此不必再流浪找寻
爱就一个字我只说一次
你知道我只会用行动表示
烟花太放肆守住了坚持看
我为你孤注一掷
爱就一个字我只说一次
恐怕听见的人勾起了相思
任老的城市搜索你的影子
让你幸福我愿意试
让你幸福是我一生在乎的事

Interesting Conversation with my god-son!

I had an interesting conversation with my god son over the phone today.

He was munching halfway thru his mouthful of cheeseburger while having a conversation with me:
He asked: 乾-Mummy, why you didnt bring bibi(refering to him) out shop shop huh?
I replied: Because I'm busy work work, no work work cannot bring bibi shop shop. So be good boi k.
He replied: Okay!
He asked:乾-Mummy, can I ask you a question?
I replied:Yes bibi, what is it?
He asked:Can I marry you? (Huh??... I burst out laughing and said tenderly to him. )
I replied: Bibi, 乾-Mummy loves you very much and I'm very happy you wanna marry me but 乾-Mummy can't marry you.
He asked:But why 乾-Mummy ? Why can't you marry me? Then I can't marry anybody else. I just want to marry you, 乾-Mummy . You're my Darling 乾-Mummy!

So sweet of him right?
I proceeded to explain what 'marry' is but as to how much he absorbed my explanation...

I said:乾-Mummy is really getting old and looked ugly.So you cant marry old woman.
He replied:You are not ugly, you are so beautiful. You look like a Princess!!

He is always so sweet to me.

One Hundred i

100 things about i that you may be reading for the first time:

100. i love reading.

99. i have heights phobia.

98. i wear my watch on my left hand.

97. i hate the sight and smell of blood.

96. i do not like caterpillars, maggots, worms and all that stuffs.

95. i hate washing toilets.

94. i love chocolate ice-cream with thin waffles.

93. i do not take cockles.

92. i once talked to my senior in school for 8 hours straight - until 4am in the morning!

91. i do not take beef and raw stuff.

90. i love to cook but hate washing up after that.

89. i eat blanched brocolli to lose weight.

88. i like to have a lot of freedom.

87. i like spicy food.

86. i like green tea.

85. i also like wheatgrass drink.

84. i like purple color.

83. i prefer to drink plain water when it's warm because it tastes funny when it's at room temperature.

82. i once sewed a kimono dress for my barbie doll.

81. i look fugly and scary when i woke up in the morning.

80. i must shower at least twice everyday.

79. i like to have gathering and catch up session with my friends and peers.

78. i like putting the clothes in the washing machine for washing but hate taking them out for hanging.

77. i curse when i'm crossed.

76. i do not watch ghost movies.

75. i don't own any asset now.

74. i like to be alone. Sometimes.

73. i can make my own fruit drink but i think it tastes weird.

72. i don't like men who secretly steal glances at other girls when they are with their partners.

71. i like men with a good sense of humour because i'm a full-of-nonsense-girl.

70. i like flowers, just not chrysanthemun.

69. i like gadgets (not those chain, handcuffs or whip types, ok).

68. i don't like men who come too close to me when they are talking. i don't like to breathe in what they breathe out!

67. i enjoy going to the movies.

66. i love dim sum. Typical Cantonese gal.

65. i love Mos Burger' french fries.

64. i can drive really well. My driving-instructors think otherwise.

63. i don't like to make the first move on a guy even if i like him. (i'm still stuck in my mother's time)

62. i'm smart. Like totally smart! I'm his smartie.

61. i like Christmas.

60. i like to shop alone when im down.

59. i love heels from Charles & Keith.

58. i eat to live but sometimes i think i live to eat!

57. i hate cockcroaches. Will scream like mad when i saw it.

56. i won't bite unless i find you really offensive.

55. i like Jay Chou songs.

54. i want to try Detoxing. Can lose a few pounds you know.

53. i like to watch movies that have very good-looking male leads and very beautiful female-leads. All the male leads must either be very very rich or very very powderful and the female leads must either be very very poor or outcasts. Ahh, you can bring in the popcorn now!

52. i love Barney, the purple dinosaur.(My fav color)

51. i'm quite observant.

50. i've strong feeling.

49. i used to have twelve suitors all at one go. (when im 21 and 2 years back)

48. i always have strong craving for teh c siu dai.

47. i can boil very delicious soup.

46. i love myself.

45. i love to eat cooked veggie.

44. i have phobia in learning swimming.

43. i love steamed corn with lot of margerine.

42. i don't like to work.

41. i like SK II. That's why i have "ok" skin complexion.

40. i like to eat baked bean with hot dog and scramble egg for breakfast.

39. i'm good at reading minds.

38. i don't like to sleep alone.

37. i can down ten cans of green tea in five minutes. i know i am Amazing!

36. i pray everyday that money can drop from the sky.

35. i love chocolates esp those with nuts.

34. i love Coach and LV.

33. i love desserts.

32. i am super good at acting (only to uninteresting-over-eager male species in pub).

31. i laugh easily.

30. i'm scared of ghosts, monsters, spirits, etc.

29. i read the wall street journal.

28. i can talk and listen at the same time. Again, i am Amazing.

27. i look good in black.

26. i think all men should help out in houseworks.

25. i always get irritated with those high pitch voice.

24. i like mature thinking men. Really!

23. i actually enjoy sleeping during the movies.

22. i love plain food because i have nothing better to eat or when im sick.

21. i'm very good at maths but not those financial theory.

20. i enjoy cleaning up my room.

19. i love bamboo rice.

18. i believe that if i unskin an apple at 12midnite while looking into the mirror, i'll see my future partner.

17. i like licking my fingers, especially after having KFC.

16. i can set your heart on fire with just one stare.

15. i enjoy plane rides.

14. i think men who help out with houseworks are really cute.

13. i am funny.

12. i've got two temporary tattoos before.

11. i can spend hours at the supermarket.

10. i cry easily. Esp during PMS.

09. i undergo 6 months physiotherapy before.

08. i can be fierce at times.

07. i do not like to fight over thing with others.

06. i can't tolerance betrayal.

05. i don't enjoy eating popcorn unless i'm at the movies.

04. i can make you remember me forever.

03. i can also make myself forget about you at the same time.

02. i'm currently having a hard time overcome something but i'm not telling you what's happen!!

01. do you actually believe all that you read here??=)

Haha.. that was my "One Hundred i" list i did sometime in 2009 on my blog.

Relationship being like a piece of blank paper

A quote from someone.

about relationship being like a piece of blank paper. Both of you starts with a clean sheet of paper and initially both of you will be happily writing your story on it. Over time, one may be tired and write less and the other party has to put in extra effort and fill in the space. Sometimes, it might be the other way round and one party have to compromise or give in or put more effort to ensure the words keep flowing. If either party chooses to stop writing or chooses to write on another piece of paper, the story just can't go on. It's as simple as that.