What Should You Resolve to Change Next Year?

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Are You A Girl Or Woman?

You Are A Woman!

Congratulations, you've made it to adulthood. You're emotionally mature, responsible, and unlikely to act out. You accept that life is hard - and do your best to keep things upbeat. This makes you the perfect girlfriend... or even wife!

Are You A Girl Or a Woman?

Be thankful

I wanted to take a moment of this final quiet time to reflect on all the things I am thankful for this year. It has been an amazing time in my life, likely one of the best years ever. It is much easier to succeed if you have a lot of friends standing there encouraging you and supporting you and loving you as you go along.

I am thankful for my health and my home.

I am thankful for family and friends who love me. They gave me a lot of support, listened patiently to my crys and gave me hugs and talked to me. I am especially grateful to them.

I am thankful for having great colleagues who work hand in hand to get everything done. The people at my job love me and respect me and they care deeply for me.

I am thankful for a great working environment that I enjoy and that holds wonderful possibility in the future.

I am thankful for an understanding boss, she is showing me that it is ok to be human and make mistakes and it is ok to feel things. Whats important to remember is that I am human and mistakes are learning opportunities and my boss is someone I can learn from not someone who will judge me. What a wonderful feeling to understand that!

I am thankful for the opportunity to work. How great is that!

I am thankful for a wonderful someone like him who would be standing there for me to lean on.

I feel so truly blessed and I feel so complete. I trust that things today are exactly as they need to be. Have a happy new year! I hope my life will filled with laughter and love.

Joanne & Ryan's Wedding

I attended my best friend’s wedding @ Shangri-La Rasa Sentosa Resort last Sat. I had a fantastic time with everyone down there and basically just hung around with my secondary school friends. Time flies, everyone has their own timetable now.

While we had a fantastic time and were so happy to see our friends get married, when I went for a walk on the resort areas are very clean. The beach water down there is both warm and see-through, which makes for a much nicer experience.Hope that the resort will maintain their beautiful beaches long into the future.Rasa Sentosa Resort is such a gorgeous place and I would hate to see it ruined.

And lastly, congrats to our friends for getting married! May you both have a happy and healthy life together, and see you at Lunar New Year for Mahjong Session!

Our group photo for the wedding:

Song Recommendation for Dec 2008: 家後 By 江惠

让我们一起共勉之。。。。。很有意思的一首歌.

好感动的一首歌！真的唱出女人的心情！It's touching song (: makes me tears everytime.

A special gift from a great pal!

Few weeks ago after I came back for my Ku Ching trip, I received a special gift from my great pal. She turn up in one of our gathering for Christmas gift exchange @ Boat Quay... A rare guest for us as she is station oversea due to work commitment. We will have a simple triple celebration for Christmas, December birthday (those frenz birthday which falls in December) and year end celebration. That night is a gd catch up session with most of them as i hardly go out for drinks with them recently.

This is what i get from my great pal:




Rhodium-plated pendant with open heart in clear crystal pave and smaller heart-cut crystal.

It's really suit me well. Good taste!!! Thanks:)

Surprise!!!

I’m so dead tired today. I was really walking all over the place in my office for today. Things just keep hitting you and you have to settle them. And I was not using my brain.

Luckily I am seeing mark today.He is coming to fetch me home after work... But seriously, I think that he love me more than i love him. He always says that he loves me and his action show..He will try to sms me and say that he misses me no matter how busy he was. I can see that my bf is willing to pay for small little things without prompting from me too.

He is really the guy in this love. Pay for everything like the drinks, meals and etc ...or wait for me during our date, walk me to door step, carry all the heavy stuff and etc... There are so many things that I see in him like his manner of talking and his thoughtfulness.

Love can be such a sweet affair. I really have to work out the best in this moment and in this relationship.

Dad's Birthday- 12 Dec 08

Celebrations of my dad's birthday was on the actual day itself. He wanted to have dinner @ Soup Restaurant so i suggested we went to one of the outlet at Causeway point... I tried my best to knock off at 5.30pm sharp, just for my dad. He is the most important person in my life.. Guess because he makes so much changes in my life. My dad provides the lion's share of income to the family and he will try his best to give me whatever he can. This is the sweetest thing in the world!



This is my dad





We ordered his fav Samsui Ginger Chicken and some other dishes.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!!!

- 7 things-

Why 7 and not 8? Because I'm born on a 7th if you're wondering.7 is a special number for me too.

7 things that scare me
1. any insect
2. the dark....
3. ghost
4. great heights(like bungee jump or wadever)
5. being penniless
6. death...(especially that i dont know what happens the moment i close my eyes)
7. death of my family members or friends..cant imagine that happens...

7 things that i like the most
1. Applying mask
2. Shopping
3. Getting out of Singapore makes me happy
4. Watching HongKong drama
5. Chocolates
6. Gathering & Eating session
7. LV & Coach

7 things i said the most
1. Orh
2. Huh
3. Wa lao
4. Are you sure?
5. Aiyo
6. 不要啦
7. Okok

7 things I plan to do before I die
1. give my family a better life
2. lose weight
3. get married
4. have babies
5. have assets (haha!)
6. earn at least a million...USD!
7. travel to many places. ...

7 random facts about me
1. I almost drowned when i was 3 at a swimming pool, so until now i dont really like the prospect of going to learn swimming.
2. I like things organised and neat.
3. I cannot stand wet toliet floors.. especially when i go overseas or chalet..
4. I only use SK II
5. I like shopping & dim sum...
6. I cannot go out without any accessories
7. I'm a homely person.

7 important things in my bag
1. handphone
2. wallet
3. tissues
4. keys
5. hair pins or clips
6. hand cream
7. sweets

My Recent Strength In Life :")

Things are not going really well for me in work and my health recently.... Thanks to him that I still get to have my certain time of happiness and enjoyment of life after listening to his songs..

Purpose of a partner

We went to fish prawns last friday which is my day off... Even though the weather is humid but is a good interaction session with him.. Both of us are so busy with work, friends and family... It's a catching up session too...

As usual, he will start a conversation first.....

Nigel: Do you know why you need to have a boyfriend in your life?


Me: Hmm.....Because I need someone that I can lean on his shoulder when im tired.

Nigel: Not only that....You need someone to take care of you (or for you to take care of) or someone to share your life with.

Me: But Im pretty much an independent person, so don't worry.

Nigel: Being independent does not equate to being Ms Know-it-all. Ms Independent is someone who knows how to seek help when she needs one.

Me: “Yessssss”. No wonder you're in sale....

Nigel: How come no prawn eat my bait???

Me: .....(In my heart: They're scared away by your preaching of cos! hahhha)

Total: 7 prawns was caught and all landed in my stomach.... Yummy yummy...

Make someone(ME!!!) else happy:)

Our conversation over the phone today while im rushing for my project....
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Nigel: I try to make AT LEAST my wife happy everyday.
Me: How?
Nigel: Well, I just tune in to her needs and wants and take it from there. I suppose that is exactly the same way to make someone else happy, today and everyday! So I will consider this to be something worth doing and continuing to do.
Me:(Stay calm replied) Really ah, okay loh...(But really melt my heart after hearing this.. shh shh!!!).
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Must learning to be grateful for what he done for me:)

Song Recommendation for Dec 2008: Dandelion's Promise 蒲公英的約定 By 周杰倫

"The One"

After all these years. Thinking back.. I've got only a few clues. I know..

- when he cares about me and whatever is going on with me, no matter how little tiny thing it is.

- when we care about how each other feels, without becoming obsessed with one's own feelings, after some unfortunate situations.

- when I am totally upset or depressed, and he lets me cry on his shoulder, holds me, kisses me on my forehead, keeps telling me that I'll be okay and that I always look good even though there is a big bruise on my forehead from the night I slammed my head into a door.

- when we are comfortable with each other's company even though no word has been said.

- when we know each other well enough to know how we will react to some situations.

"The one" suits us at a particular time in our life. I don't have the same expectations in life. So, all my ex couldn't be "the one" (even if I thought at that time, he was) as we evolved at different moments and have, now different goals in life.

Happy to say that he is the one.


He is the one who gave me a ring even though we had just began.

He is the one who will give me all the best things in the world.

He is the one who was more worried for my future than anyone else.

He is the one who knew what to do when I breakdown in the middle of the night.

He is the one who made me laugh and cry and laugh again.

He is the one who kiss my forehead almost every time he had to go.

He is the one who never ever wanted me to get wet in the rain.

He is the one who spent xxx digits on phone bill just to talk to me.

He is the one who scolds me when I feel stupid.

He is the one who make me feel like I am the luckiest girl in the world.

He is the one (not only him of cos), who says I'm pretty.

He is the one who doesn't mind my fats as long as I'm okay with it.

He is the one who make me feel I'm special.

He is the one whom I'm head over heels in love with.

He is the one who hugs me when I feel low/moody.

He is the one supporting me to do anything I want as long as I'm happy.

He is the guy whom I think I might marry one day.

He is my dear......Thank you for all you have done for me!