What Should You Resolve to Change Next Year?

You Should Make 1 Resolution

Reduce Stress Overall

What Should You Resolve to Change Next Year?

Are You A Girl Or Woman?

You Are A Woman!

Congratulations, you've made it to adulthood. You're emotionally mature, responsible, and unlikely to act out. You accept that life is hard - and do your best to keep things upbeat. This makes you the perfect girlfriend... or even wife!

Are You A Girl Or a Woman?

Be thankful

I wanted to take a moment of this final quiet time to reflect on all the things I am thankful for this year. It has been an amazing time in my life, likely one of the best years ever. It is much easier to succeed if you have a lot of friends standing there encouraging you and supporting you and loving you as you go along.

I am thankful for my health and my home.

I am thankful for family and friends who love me. They gave me a lot of support, listened patiently to my crys and gave me hugs and talked to me. I am especially grateful to them.

I am thankful for having great colleagues who work hand in hand to get everything done. The people at my job love me and respect me and they care deeply for me.

I am thankful for a great working environment that I enjoy and that holds wonderful possibility in the future.

I am thankful for an understanding boss, she is showing me that it is ok to be human and make mistakes and it is ok to feel things. Whats important to remember is that I am human and mistakes are learning opportunities and my boss is someone I can learn from not someone who will judge me. What a wonderful feeling to understand that!

I am thankful for the opportunity to work. How great is that!

I am thankful for a wonderful someone like him who would be standing there for me to lean on.

I feel so truly blessed and I feel so complete. I trust that things today are exactly as they need to be. Have a happy new year! I hope my life will filled with laughter and love.

Joanne & Ryan's Wedding

I attended my best friend’s wedding @ Shangri-La Rasa Sentosa Resort last Sat. I had a fantastic time with everyone down there and basically just hung around with my secondary school friends. Time flies, everyone has their own timetable now.

While we had a fantastic time and were so happy to see our friends get married, when I went for a walk on the resort areas are very clean. The beach water down there is both warm and see-through, which makes for a much nicer experience.Hope that the resort will maintain their beautiful beaches long into the future.Rasa Sentosa Resort is such a gorgeous place and I would hate to see it ruined.

And lastly, congrats to our friends for getting married! May you both have a happy and healthy life together, and see you at Lunar New Year for Mahjong Session!

Our group photo for the wedding:

Song Recommendation for Dec 2008: 家後 By 江惠

让我们一起共勉之。。。。。很有意思的一首歌.

好感动的一首歌！真的唱出女人的心情！It's touching song (: makes me tears everytime.

A special gift from a great pal!

Few weeks ago after I came back for my Ku Ching trip, I received a special gift from my great pal. She turn up in one of our gathering for Christmas gift exchange @ Boat Quay... A rare guest for us as she is station oversea due to work commitment. We will have a simple triple celebration for Christmas, December birthday (those frenz birthday which falls in December) and year end celebration. That night is a gd catch up session with most of them as i hardly go out for drinks with them recently.

This is what i get from my great pal:




Rhodium-plated pendant with open heart in clear crystal pave and smaller heart-cut crystal.

It's really suit me well. Good taste!!! Thanks:)

Surprise!!!

I’m so dead tired today. I was really walking all over the place in my office for today. Things just keep hitting you and you have to settle them. And I was not using my brain.

Luckily I am seeing mark today.He is coming to fetch me home after work... But seriously, I think that he love me more than i love him. He always says that he loves me and his action show..He will try to sms me and say that he misses me no matter how busy he was. I can see that my bf is willing to pay for small little things without prompting from me too.

He is really the guy in this love. Pay for everything like the drinks, meals and etc ...or wait for me during our date, walk me to door step, carry all the heavy stuff and etc... There are so many things that I see in him like his manner of talking and his thoughtfulness.

Love can be such a sweet affair. I really have to work out the best in this moment and in this relationship.

Dad's Birthday- 12 Dec 08

Celebrations of my dad's birthday was on the actual day itself. He wanted to have dinner @ Soup Restaurant so i suggested we went to one of the outlet at Causeway point... I tried my best to knock off at 5.30pm sharp, just for my dad. He is the most important person in my life.. Guess because he makes so much changes in my life. My dad provides the lion's share of income to the family and he will try his best to give me whatever he can. This is the sweetest thing in the world!



This is my dad





We ordered his fav Samsui Ginger Chicken and some other dishes.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!!!

- 7 things-

Why 7 and not 8? Because I'm born on a 7th if you're wondering.7 is a special number for me too.

7 things that scare me
1. any insect
2. the dark....
3. ghost
4. great heights(like bungee jump or wadever)
5. being penniless
6. death...(especially that i dont know what happens the moment i close my eyes)
7. death of my family members or friends..cant imagine that happens...

7 things that i like the most
1. Applying mask
2. Shopping
3. Getting out of Singapore makes me happy
4. Watching HongKong drama
5. Chocolates
6. Gathering & Eating session
7. LV & Coach

7 things i said the most
1. Orh
2. Huh
3. Wa lao
4. Are you sure?
5. Aiyo
6. 不要啦
7. Okok

7 things I plan to do before I die
1. give my family a better life
2. lose weight
3. get married
4. have babies
5. have assets (haha!)
6. earn at least a million...USD!
7. travel to many places. ...

7 random facts about me
1. I almost drowned when i was 3 at a swimming pool, so until now i dont really like the prospect of going to learn swimming.
2. I like things organised and neat.
3. I cannot stand wet toliet floors.. especially when i go overseas or chalet..
4. I only use SK II
5. I like shopping & dim sum...
6. I cannot go out without any accessories
7. I'm a homely person.

7 important things in my bag
1. handphone
2. wallet
3. tissues
4. keys
5. hair pins or clips
6. hand cream
7. sweets

My Recent Strength In Life :")

Things are not going really well for me in work and my health recently.... Thanks to him that I still get to have my certain time of happiness and enjoyment of life after listening to his songs..

Purpose of a partner

We went to fish prawns last friday which is my day off... Even though the weather is humid but is a good interaction session with him.. Both of us are so busy with work, friends and family... It's a catching up session too...

As usual, he will start a conversation first.....

Nigel: Do you know why you need to have a boyfriend in your life?


Me: Hmm.....Because I need someone that I can lean on his shoulder when im tired.

Nigel: Not only that....You need someone to take care of you (or for you to take care of) or someone to share your life with.

Me: But Im pretty much an independent person, so don't worry.

Nigel: Being independent does not equate to being Ms Know-it-all. Ms Independent is someone who knows how to seek help when she needs one.

Me: “Yessssss”. No wonder you're in sale....

Nigel: How come no prawn eat my bait???

Me: .....(In my heart: They're scared away by your preaching of cos! hahhha)

Total: 7 prawns was caught and all landed in my stomach.... Yummy yummy...

Make someone(ME!!!) else happy:)

Our conversation over the phone today while im rushing for my project....
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Nigel: I try to make AT LEAST my wife happy everyday.
Me: How?
Nigel: Well, I just tune in to her needs and wants and take it from there. I suppose that is exactly the same way to make someone else happy, today and everyday! So I will consider this to be something worth doing and continuing to do.
Me:(Stay calm replied) Really ah, okay loh...(But really melt my heart after hearing this.. shh shh!!!).
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Must learning to be grateful for what he done for me:)

Song Recommendation for Dec 2008: Dandelion's Promise 蒲公英的約定 By 周杰倫

"The One"

After all these years. Thinking back.. I've got only a few clues. I know..

- when he cares about me and whatever is going on with me, no matter how little tiny thing it is.

- when we care about how each other feels, without becoming obsessed with one's own feelings, after some unfortunate situations.

- when I am totally upset or depressed, and he lets me cry on his shoulder, holds me, kisses me on my forehead, keeps telling me that I'll be okay and that I always look good even though there is a big bruise on my forehead from the night I slammed my head into a door.

- when we are comfortable with each other's company even though no word has been said.

- when we know each other well enough to know how we will react to some situations.

"The one" suits us at a particular time in our life. I don't have the same expectations in life. So, all my ex couldn't be "the one" (even if I thought at that time, he was) as we evolved at different moments and have, now different goals in life.

Happy to say that he is the one.


He is the one who gave me a ring even though we had just began.

He is the one who will give me all the best things in the world.

He is the one who was more worried for my future than anyone else.

He is the one who knew what to do when I breakdown in the middle of the night.

He is the one who made me laugh and cry and laugh again.

He is the one who kiss my forehead almost every time he had to go.

He is the one who never ever wanted me to get wet in the rain.

He is the one who spent xxx digits on phone bill just to talk to me.

He is the one who scolds me when I feel stupid.

He is the one who make me feel like I am the luckiest girl in the world.

He is the one (not only him of cos), who says I'm pretty.

He is the one who doesn't mind my fats as long as I'm okay with it.

He is the one who make me feel I'm special.

He is the one whom I'm head over heels in love with.

He is the one who hugs me when I feel low/moody.

He is the one supporting me to do anything I want as long as I'm happy.

He is the guy whom I think I might marry one day.

He is my dear......Thank you for all you have done for me!

Any recommendation for mobile phone?

I'm looking around for mobile phone... Any model & brand for recommendation?

My requirements:
1) Must be slim and compact
2) MP3 & MP4
3) At least with 3.5 Mega pixel camera
4) User-friendly
5) Bluetooth
6) Infrared
7) Nice colorful screen, great themes and games

Back from the getaway…

Having lived in the city of concrete walls and replicas of boring green trees for my whole life, seeing nature as it really is............

The past few days, I rested my head and gave myself a break.
I know my plan and purpose of the holiday was to go sort out my thoughts.
But the trip was so relaxing & calming that I had to give myself a break to enjoy the moments of absolute nothingness.
Pardon the un-made-up faces though.
In moments of absolute nothingness, there’s nothing on my face.

moments alone…
*Peace*


Some of my photos which are not extremely sharp, are taken by handphone. The sky was still dark with the only source of brightness from the moon and stars. There wasn’t a single soul on the beach.

My mind was clear and empty. Not thinking of anything in particular.
As in, when you try to concentrate on thinking of nothing, you are ironically, actually thinking of something.You are thinking of trying to think of nothing. Get it?
I really can’t describe that feeling!

The most beautiful part of my trip, I sort out all my thoughts when I overheard someone saying this to his beloved one next to him "Let's forget abt the past...Just being with you is enough for me to have a great time"...

31 Oct 2008, 1.05pm

Received this bouquet of sunflowers on Friday!

Thank for the beautiful sunflower bouquet...so sweet of my friend since I rarely receive "SUNFLOWER"(Did you get the hint???)....

Chewy Junior

This is not your usual donuts or cream puffs. It is a fusion between Cream Papa and Donut Factory!

Really chewy!I love the texture and the feel of it.They also have many different flavours for you to choose from, for example, strawberry, blueberry, oreo etc.

I tried the oreo one and it was fine, but one thing about it is that the taste gets a little overpowering after eating 3 quarter of it.
Another big down point about chewy junior is that it is very messy to eat. I suppose because they want it to looks nice, so the flavouring is put on the top of the dough(or whatever you call the bun) and when you bite, the cream or topping will be all over you lips and mouth, thus, it’s not something that i will advise you to eat outside. Maybe if you buy it home, it’ll be better.

Movies:我的最爱

L for Love
L for Lies

背叛是什么滋味... 报复又会得到快乐吗?
我看了这部电影.

在爱情里,大家在寻找什么呢?

祝福 = 幸福 ?
选择祝福, 就得到幸福... 似乎说得简单, 做的难.

朋友的故事启发了我, 要珍惜眼前人.
我感到安慰, 但偶尔我也会觉得不满足, 不快乐... 自私等等

人生才几十年, 何必让自己不快乐呢? 对不对, 不如把这些时间用在"比如帮助人啊, 完成梦想, 赚多点钱, 呵呵!" 所以我又学会了"知足常乐" 哈哈... 我的四个字成语, 可能写错, 不管啦. 明白就好.

My Nici Monkey-Thank dearie :)

I have been looking around for this Nici Monkey for quite some time. My dearie got it for me and surprised me on Tuesday. I was so happy and wanna give her my kiss for the day.... I was feeling kinda depressed lately (work, health and some personal stuff) and this gift really brighten up my day... hahaha... thank dearie!

24 Oct 2008, 05:27pm

I was thrilled, shocked and a million other feelings I can’t put into words when i received this bouquet of roses from him............
Is it just the beginning of our route to our Happily ever after???

小女人

One of my "friend" sms me relatively recently to ask me out…

HIM:Hey, want to head out for drinks?
ME:Nope. Quite busy these day
HIM:Busy dating?
ME:Busy with a lot of programs.
HIM:I saw you with another guy the other day. Is he the ONE???

I didn’t bother to reply. Seriously, what was his point???
To see if I would go out with him despite having a significant party?
It’s not as if he haven’t got turned down enough by ME before.

For some unknown reasons, I felt abit of happiness and glee.(小女人 's feeling)
Like you know… I kinda ‘belong’ to someone in other people eyes. So satisfying, it’s like a kind of secure feeling ba. HAHA!

Song Recommendation for Oct 2008:The Longest Movie 最長的電影 By 周杰倫

我們的開始　是很長的電影
放映了三年　我票都還留著

冰上的芭蕾　腦海中還在旋轉
望著妳　慢慢忘記妳

＃朦朧的時間　我們溜了多遠
　冰刀劃的圈　圈起了誰改變
　如果再重來　會不會稍嫌狼狽
　愛是不是不開口才珍貴

＊再給我兩分鐘　讓我把記憶結成冰
　別融化了眼淚　妳妝都花了 要我怎麼記得
　祈禱你將我忘了吧 祈禱你將我忘了吧
　妳說妳會哭　不是因為在乎

Repeat ＃,＊,＊

Is this what you really want????

Is this what you really want?

How many times have you asked yourself this question till now?

Being taken for granted and being expected to know everything and anything..

Being taken for granted that you will and should know what to do when something happens..

Being taken for granted that you should not bother other people unless it is really required..

Being taken for granted that everything is part of the whole package..

Even thou you were never told about alot of issues during the initial stage..

Even thou you were never told about alot of things..

Even thou you are shocked..

Even thou you have never been trained in those aspects..

Even thou you know nuts about those stuffs..

Is this...

What you really want???

Are you...Really happy???

Part time:Aunt Agony

xxx called me up today.... Im surprised to receive her after some many years.... She was crying over the side of the phone. Im so worried abt her.... Our conversation are as follows:

xxx: Hello Sis, *weeping* *weeping*
Me: Hello, what's happen to you? Dont cry first.. Calm down and we can have a good talk...
xxx: I'm so confused.....
Me: hmmm... confused abt what?
xxx:.......
Me: R/s?
xxx: Ya lor, he will never marry me because i am not the type of wife he is looking for.
Me: huh? Y did he say that?
xxx: because i can't do simple housework properly, can't cook, we always quarrel over simple and minor stuff, difference in character etc..
Me:love can surpass "can't do simple housework properly, can't cook, we always quarrel over simple and minor stuff, difference in character etc". well, you can always learn too. nothing is impossible if both of you want to work this relationship out.
xxx: i was very sad upon hearing that. i don't know what i should do? what will you do if you were me?
Me: I'll ask myself what do I want in this relationship? do I ultimately want to marry him or do I just want a soul mate?
xxx: other problem is communication. i feel that i can't get communicate well with him. whenever we got an argument, he will definitely insist that i am wrong and he's right. and most of the time, i have to give in to him. i don't know why, but in the end i will still give in to him. maybe he don't love me as much as i love him. (Sound so familiar to me......)
Me: Don't you find such an emotionally driven and draining relationship tiring?
xxx: Of cos la... But what to do...
Me: well, if getting married eventually is a commitment you are seeking in a bf, I guess you know what should be your next course of action. Don't wait anymore for a relationship that doesn't bear fruit. Don't waste your youth. You deserve to have somebody who loves u as much as u love him. (My dearie shared this with me! Thank:))
xxx: Thank Sis, i know what to do le... I feel better le...
Me: Np:) ...........................................

Only time will tell…

Quote by someone:

"if a relationship is based on infatuation, love or just plain lust."
"if a relationship is stemmed from love, happiness or desperation."

I had went through negligible relationships that are based on lust, and some infatuation.
I had went ahead to indulge in a relationship because I love… or because he makes me happy. I’ve had a lot of relationships and believed only time will tell...................

.....................

You know you’ve got issues when almost every guy you’ve dated,
at one point or the other all end up saying, "I can’t mind read."
And if u’re lucky (or not so lucky in this instance) enough that the guy’s a sensitive one,
he would end up saying too that, "You keep it inside and don’t talk about it anymore."

"Someone"

It’s easy to have happy moments with someone, but it is finding someone who would work out the not so happy moments that is the most crucial thing in a relationship.

Have I found that someone in my life??? ...........................................

Deep Though

I have a supportive caring family,
a handful of people who I know are always there,
a nice enjoyable job,
a simple laid back life.
But why do I still feel so lost sometimes…
Why do I constantly feel that I’m not enough for myself?
Did I missed out something in my life?

Freedom

I am not submissive to my other half and my parents because I totally don’t like being controlled.It’s TWO very different story, deciding to submit or being told to do it. Recently my "unknown" had been calling me on a daily basis, smsing me on a hourly basis and bugging me at […] :(

嗨…

身为一个大/小女人(?)，我坚持认为事业是应该让男人来打拼的。
一个大男人在外打拼一番事业，为的就是要有更美好舒适的未来。
因为如此，我不会想要耽误一个男人的事业发展。
我本身始终能接受默默地在背后支持着一个自己爱的人。
因为陪伴着自己爱的男人共度一生就象是我自己的使命。

我曾经以为在一个男人背后默默的等待是一件相当容易的事。
但直到我轻身体会到一个人被透明地抛在后头时，我才发现其实这一点都不容易。
无言的呵护，无期限的等待，无承诺的未来…
有多少人能无条件的做到这些呢？
我曾经因为如此局面而发现原来爱情并不是伟大的。
爱情是自私的。
因为我们始终都想得到回报 － 对方的爱。
所为 once bitten, twice shy… 我已学会了不牺牲自己。
一切看得开一点，一切过得少忧虑一点，一切也走得潇洒一点.

说真的，我已好久未轰轰烈烈地热恋一番了.
多少也或许已忘了要怎么维护一段感情.
对自己太没信心，所以不敢想于太多… 要求太多… 只想始终能得到快乐。
我想我该也算是个为快乐而活的大/小女人吧…

P/S: 其实写到这里，我突然有一股冲动想把这网上日记给关了。总觉得自己因为这儿，而把 ‘自己’ 呈现在一个不怎么好的灯光下。嗨…

Lappy Down!!!

My lappy was down and sent for 2 weeks repairs and upgrading! I'm so handicap w/o my lappy.

I finally sat myself down with my newly rebooted & upgraded lappy and realise my biggest, most important, most personal folder in my laptop is missing!

I spend 15mins frantically searching and I’m now convinced it’s really gone…

I lost:
All my past work project portfolios and resumes.
All my cherished messages and conversation logs I had kept and encrypted.
All my video files. (except for the unimportant ones I kept in a separate folder)
All my personal pictures I had stored separately from the rest.
If I can use only 1 word now to describe my current feelings,the word would be ‘Devastated‘
I swear henceforth never to upgrade or do any changes to my lappy.
It’s not anybody’s fault but my own. Now everything new… I not familiar with some of the softwares.I can’t find CDs of my old programs I use, and lost all my important files.

I hate changes.
I farking hate changes.
It sucks feeling the tears welling up in my eyes.
$#&$^#@% the people who say 旧的不去，新的不来。

Time & Love

I personally like this story alot...so though of sharing with u guys...enjoy reading...

Once upon a time, there was an island where all feelings lived:Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love.

One day it was announced to the feelings that the island wouldsink, so all repaired their boats and left. Love was the onlyone who stayed. Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment.

When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask forhelp. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,"Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you.

"Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel, "Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness, let me Go with you." "Oh...Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!

"Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take you." Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask him his name.

When they arrived at dry land, the man went his own way. Love realizing how much he owed the man asked Knowledge, "Who helped me?"

"It was Time," Knowledge answered.

"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?

"Knowledge smiled with deep Wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

- Author Unknown

Hong Kong Disneyland

My HK Disneyland pics are ready for viewing. Pretty tiring but it was fun. Let the pictures tell the story ba! :)

Too little time and too many things to do!

Haven't blogged for 1 month! That's because life's been busier for me as compared to a few months ago. As we move on, we get busier and busier, and we see lesser and lesser blogs by ourselves. I feel guilty for leaving this website pretty abandoned for quite some time liao. But there's just too little time and too many things to do. Speaking of that, im busy with housekeeping now. So I gotta get back to clear my stuff. Take care! =)

Little Tim Sum place, Happy Valley @ Hong Kong

Perhaps some of you wonder how do I gain 3kg within 3 days. Below are all the culprits:

Highly recommended this excellent timsum place (It is small, but the food is EXCELLENT!! Be prepared to queue up / wait though ...) @ Happy Valley in Hong Kong.

Add: G/F, 63 Sing Woo Road, Happy Valley, Hong KongTel: +852 2834 8893



Must try the delicious Char Siew Pao!




More goodies ...





The beancurd-skin stuffed timsum is incredible too, so were most of the other dishes ... We ordered a LOT of food!











There was every conceivable timsum on the menu, and we ordered most of it ... including pork chops!

Time to say goodbye to this scrumptious timsum place ... After something like 50 orders of timsum!!!!

Woman's Fav

Strictly no marking for the day, we went to Tampines Mall in the afternoon few weeks back.

The best present is my lovely dad agrees to buy a 0.31 Destinee solitare ring for my mum!Initially, my mum was thinking whether to upgrade her 0.22 Destinee solitare ring as the 2-year upgrade is ending soon.So, when we finally chanced upon a 0.31 Destinee which mum and I quite like it, I suddenly held back.

I am never a jewellery person. I don't desire diamonds at all. I don't give a damn about the carat size. To me, a 0.22 Destinee is more than enough. However, to my mum it matters a lot to her.
Even though she hardly even wear it!

So what makes her wanna upgrade it?
I guess it is due to peer influence and the temptation of upgrading a bigger carat without any depreciation value. After trying out various carats, she likes 0.3 the most. Any ring above 0.35 is just too big for her. She don't like the feeling of having such a big carat ring on her small finger lah.Nevertheless, she finds it hard to let go. But that 0.22 Destinee is the ring that my dad gave her as 25th year anniversary gift . This ring has so much sentimental value. How can she just upgrade like that?She rejected his proposal immediately. I comforted her while walking out from the shop.

After dinner at Aijisen, she finally made up her mind to buy the 0.31 Destinee. I were wondering how the mere size difference would matter. After witnessing the comparison, I were convinced that there IS an obvious difference in size. I tried to convince her that it would still be the same ring.

Well, except that it has grown slightly.

"People grow up. So does diamond." (this phrase must be made known to men ... *lol*)

Without further hesitation, my mum bade farewell to her 0.22 Destinee and welcomed 0.31 Destinee.Like what dad said, it's all fated.

Shopping, Shopping & Shopping

This is what I really call 'LIFE'.
For the month of June till now, I've been doing lots of shopping.
Maybe this is the only way to de-stress myself (Excuse for myself.. hahaha)...
How can I resist such mega promotion and good bargain? (And I will face the music of settling incredulous credit card bills in the month of June & July!)

What I bought:

A Top, pant and skirt from Mango Up to 70% Sales!

Masks and a shimmer from Face Shop @ 20% discount each.

Masks from 我的美麗日記 @ 80 cents/pc (Thank to Jaycee's recommendation)

Top from Zara Up to 70% Sales!

1 tube & 1 pant from unknown shop sale @ 10 each/pc

Anger Management Part I

Hmm....kind of funny....My peer seems to feel that I have controlled my temper recently and have noticed a change in me!!! They feel I'm no longer a hotheaded, volatile and rash ger I used to be...lol

Have I really changed?....Hmm...to be honest...I really dunno leh....but recently..maybe bcos I'm blessed with a supportive person around me, someone who always so patience and tolerance towards my stubborn temper...someone that make me smile when i need it most... someone always there for me without any complaints...someone who call me "Ci Xi Empress" .....so my "volcano" has not chance to erupt...lol

Maybe age is catching up...(ya lah..though I'm xx only)....nowadays.....I'm not so easily irritated....maybe got something to do with my life ba!....afterall..I do meet lots of people from all walk of life....so guess I'm more "immuned" to irritating ppl...

But hor...I still cant stand ppl who think they are the best in this world....those who think they are so smart and born with "nature beauty"but in actual fact, achieved nothing at all....gers who think every guy will fight over her...n guys who think every ger cant wait to bed with him! *puke*

Cool down!...lol......must be more cultured...*pui*..wahahaha...guess I'm just what I'm.....I still cant imagine myself trying to act gentle or ger ger....Mum oh mum..u certainly picked the wrong chinese name for mi.....waahahhaa...(oops!!! Dun spank my backside hor!!! Mummy)

Customized Decorations on the usually plain shoes

This is about shoes - customized decorations on the usually plain shoes and I think it's quite an interesting selection to pick from. Cost would be estimated at about $20~$35.

This design is really for the casual streetwear - definitely eye-catching. At least I have never seen this design on the market in Singapore yet.


Not a bad design at all- quite presentable and cute-looking as well.

Any sponsor for me???

Take a look and see if you are interested:
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"Shop Till You Drop" may be a bad phase afterall

No, I don't intend to blame the Great Singapore Sales nor the overcrowded SMRT that caused one lady to faint in the train between Orchard & Sommerset earlier last week. Perhaps she was just unwell.

She had her hands full of shopping bags. She stood alone in a train full of passengers. And she fainted.

She did that in such a slow motion. One second she was standing as silently as the rest of us. The next second she slowly slipped onto the floor.

It was a sad sight as she was clearly trying to maintain her consciousness as she gasped for air. It was heart-warming to witness how other passengers reacted promptly to empty their seats & guided the lady to sit or to lay on them. (She insisted to just occupy one seat and not to sleep on the rest, by the way.)

She weakly shook her head when one old lady asked her whether she had someone to call to. She nodded--visibly in gratitude--when two other passengers offered their help to bring her out to the next stop to get the SMRT staff's assistance.

And in the next stop, they went out without much problem despite the train being overcrowded as other passengers (those who were standing) making a way for the two samaritans assisting the lady to leave the train.

No, I am not one of the two, if that's what you are wondering. Thus, the story stopped here and no continuation to what happened to her.

Cute CJ7 外星狗,七仔 Plush or Toy or Doll

Seriously I fall in love with 7 zhai, CJ7 外星狗,七仔 Plush or Toy or Doll =) I'm hugging this to sleep every night. Part of my childish act according to my mummy.... hahaha...
This is my birthday gift from 7 which is few months back. I didn't know the story behind this 七仔 until someone told me about it today. Someone also told me that this is a perfect gift for your loved ones(7, I gotta!)

Yan can cook, so am I...

My mummy has to work today because of her childcare open house. This would mean that I do not have authentic home cooked cantonese soup today. This is a taboo for my health and skin. So I decide to cook dinner for everyone in the family. When is the last time I cook??? Oh my god, is 6 months back... Well, is not easy for a pamper princess like me to cook...Due to my last minute decision, I just cooked whatever stuff i can find in the fridge. No time to do marketing at this hours.

Dinner for the day:
1)Baby kai lan,
2)Prawns in tomato sauce
3)Omelette in minced pork, and
4)Carrots+pototoes+pork ribs soup. Yummylicious!

My parents give me a thumb for today's dinner... Hahaha... I always told them, I will give my very best shot in whatever things I want to do...

GSS- Great Singapore Sale

I am so happy because I grab a lot of good bargains for myself. I simply cant resist the temptation of GSS esp those with good discounts. I hope won't burn a hole in my pocket:) hahaha. More to come....

Hectic Month................

At last!!!! A day for me to rest at home...Haven got the time to update my blog since the last entry..busy with work,family gathering,frens gathering, shopping and attending wedding dinner..Most of the events are confirmed..currently busy with work, shopping, clubbing and dinner...blahz!
** Sorry Esther, I will update my recent events asap.

Wednesday Night's Out @ The Pump Room

Our company organised beer buzz session @ The Pump Room - where the dance, music, drinks and the crowd are. We reached The Pump Room at around 7.15pm and it was not crowded at that time. Our first stop was the dinner buffet area,we needed to fill our stomachs first before the beer session start.

However, the whole place was jam-packed when reached 8plus. Every table was fully occupied with people toasting drinks and the bar counter was like a warzone - with glasses, jugs and bottles coming in and going out at an eye-popping place. Apparently, The Pump Room was already abuzz way before 10pm but it was still a great experience seeing all those people and of course the live band onstage to entertain the crowd.


All of The Pump Room’s beers are unfiltered, unpasturised, and have no added chemicals or flavours. Giving you the consumer a 100% natural, fresh, flavourful glass of beer everytime. I tried one of their resident handicrafted brew, The Pump Room Lager which is golden, crisp, clean and easy drinking.


I were musing about how drinks can bring out some extreme behaviours in people and most of the time, people get high over drinks for two major reasons - they are either extremely happy or extremely sad. On hindsight, maybe they are just trying to use the liquor to figure out if they are truly happy or sad inside. However, Im sure that everyone enjoy themselves in this beer buzz session. See our group photo above:)

BlogThings Quizzes

I was reading Merlinda's blog when her blog post reminded me of a rather interesting site blogthings with many kinds of quizzes. So I decided to follow her lead and come up with five quizzes to entertain the readers here as well. Let's have some fun reading and doing quizzes then. =P

Your Power Color Is Gold

At Your Highest: You are engrossed in passions that mentally stimulate you. At Your Lowest: You seek thrills and neglect what's important in your life. In Love: You see dating as adventure and approach it with an open attitude. How You're Attractive: You passion for life makes others passionate about you. Your Eternal Question: "Am I Having Fun?"

You Are Chocolate Chip Ice Cream

You are kind, popular, and generous. You tend to be successful at anything you try. A social butterfly, you are great at entertaining a crowd. You are most compatible with strawberry ice cream.

What Flavor Ice Cream Are You?

Your Luck Quotient: 71%

You have a high luck quotient. More often than not, you've felt very lucky in your life. You may be randomly lucky, but it's probably more than that. Optimistic and open minded, you take advantage of all the luck that comes your way.

How Lucky Are You?

What Your Latte Says About You

You are very decadent in all aspects of your life. You never scale back, and you always live large. You are a very frivolous person. You don't take anything too seriously. Why should you? You have a good deal of energy, but you pace yourself. You never burn out too fast. You're addicted to caffeine. There's no denying it. You are a child at heart, and you don't ever miss the opportunity to do something playful. You are deep and thoughtful, but you are never withdrawn.

What Does Your Latte Say About You?

Caffe Vanilla Frappuccino

Smooth and sweet, you fit in to almost any crowd. No one would suspect you of being a coffee tweaker!

What Flavor Frappuccino Are You?