Shallow, The Name Is Man

I do wonder sometimes, what men are looking for in a woman?
Quite often, I am asked what I am looking for in a man, so how about me turning the table around and ask you guys instead?

From these 5Bs, namely: Beauty, Body, Boobs, Butts, Brain, which will you be most interested in? Oh, most of my guy friends give me the crap that personality is most important.. However I know this might not be the true answer, men are indeed shallow when it comes to women. Of course, not all of them.

Who doesn't like a pretty face? I will also take a second look if I walk past a 'handsome' man. Beauty is quite subjective. What you think is beautiful may look like 'ship wreckage' to another! Truthfully, I think first impression counts. At least if I like how you look, I won't find you annoying to begin with!

Few months back, I was at a pub with my sis and her friends. When she went to the ladies, a guy came over with his friend and started chatting me up.

He asked me:

HIM: "What is a pretty girl like you doing here alone?"
ME: "I am with a friend and she just happened to visit the ladies"
HIM:"Are you a local?"

ME:"No, not exactly" (Well, well, I decide to play along a little . . .)
HIM:"Where are you from?"
ME:"Taiwan" I answered..
HIM:"No wonder. You have nice features and your eyes are big. Most Taiwanese girls are very beautiful. So what are you doing here, on holiday or you're staying here?"

ME:"Holiday with my family"
HIM:"Errrr… as in husband or?"
ME:"Yes, with my husband"

HIM:"Oh..your husband is one lucky guy but where is he"
ME:"He's with friends - boys nite out"
HIM:"Oh, you are not afraid he is out with girls"
ME:"Sometimes it's best not to know too much. Ignorance is bliss"

HIM:"You are so pretty. If you are not married, I would love to date you. Actually, I don't mind you having a husband"
ME:"But I MIND!" (Another jerks!)

With that, he quickly excused himself . . . You can see, that guy could well be married too!

Is it really that fun in meaningless and frivolous affairs? Maybe so.

Forbidden fruit is poisonous, deadly but yet has this natural appeal that most men desire to have just a little bite. Lust. One of the seven sins.

Apple tastes sweeter when it's stolen, is it?

I Love You or You Love Me

Can love ever be that simple?

I remember when i was young, i often dream of falling passionately in love with an imaginary man who will ride a white horse wearing that shining armour. Hmm...Ok, forget about the horse and the armour, maybe a sporty motorbike and a simple plain white shirt will do. As long as he loves me to heaven, i will marry him for sure..........

Then as i grow older, i realised, it's not enough just to have some guy who loves you dearly. It's not enough even if he's willing to fly you to the moon or get you that huge red rock from Mars or get the biggest diamond in the world. Not when you don't even love him that little bit.

I began to also understand that having a relationship with some man who doesn't give two hoots about you won't work either. Especially when you happened to love that man madly to the sky, ever ready to start the bungee jumping trend down from New Asia Bar if he ever casually asked you to.(Just an example!)

So, tell me, which is better:

"To marry someone you love to death or to spend the rest of your life with someone you don’t love but who loves you very much?"

For me, i want to marry someone whom i love and one who loves me back. Because only then can i be truly happy.

Tell me, am i too idealistic?

Lappy Down AGAIN!!!

Sorry everyone! My lappy is down again last week... But it is working well and in top good condition after some help from few person esp HIM.... He is really sweet and a darling to me...Spend the whole day download all the software i need and finding ways to improve it and make it as if it is brand new for me... Even went down to SIM LIN during his busy working schedule to upgrade my RAM(Hopefully din loss any deal) and sent it back to my office door step to me... Save all the hassle and frustration dealing with this stupid lappy for me... FYI...Im an IT nerd:( ...............

Gathering for CNY Dinner

Met with some great friends to gossip share concern we have about others and over yu sheng and a wonderfully insanely filling zi char dinner.After which we adjourn to 2-mth old Firestation at Bukit Timah, an old fire station turned Art/Media mini-hub with 2 chill out joints.

Yes, like Dempsey. And it is call Jaywalk! The atmosphere is average and so-so, is all my great friends make the difference of this gathering..... Cheers:)

Oh oh oh… And they have Hoegaarden and Stella on the tap! Thank MazdaGal!

Happy lunar new year AGAIN!!!

Busy, Fun then Sick....

I have had another full fun weekend in the chalet. I really love all spare time I get....and my schedule is full for sure.. I had a lot of fun though. When I got home on Sunday after my chalet I fell asleep immediately. I woke up briefly and then fell asleep on the couch and finally decided to go back to bed. Yup it was a day of sleep. It was a lot of fun in the chalet. We were happy to see everyone had a good time catching up as well as bonding time.

For the first time, i really feels someone is standing there encouraging you and supporting you and loving you as you go along with the rest of the crowd. He makes it easier for me to face the crowd. It feels so good when you know he is planning every step of the way for you and you trust him along the way. And he said, silly gal I just want let you feel comfortable with them. How great is that!

I am feeling the effects in this hectic month. I think I might have phnumonia or something because I keep fighting something and its not getting any better. Time for the doctor. I have swollen glands and a sore throat that keeps calming down and then flairing up again:( Doc advised me to cut down on my activities and have sufficient rest everyday. Most important, stay away from hot, spicy and deep fried stuff.

Another busy time, it never ends

It has been another busy weekend. Recently, I have had a few partys to attend and gathering events and work and shopping. I felt a bit guilty not being home and doing chores and stuff but life is short and it was an opportunity that I am glad I did not miss out on.. My mum is always so wonderful, she handles all the chores pretty well and let me enjoy myself outside. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world.

Life is wonderful, it really is esp with mum around:)

My Xmas gift from him

Everyone was asking me what did I got for Xmas from him. He got me something that makes me so happy and is a bouquet of "Words of love"....He sees me as someone with lots of love and joy and happiness to give and he is right about that. I am full of such love and happiness and it is because "SOMEONE" is so easy for him to love....